Believe That YOU (Both) Can Make It
I can possibly write more about the downsides of a long distance relationship than on its good sides. The name itself sounds very ironic because relationship actually means “intimacy.” Long distance relationship is basically intimacy in distance. This can be quite confusing since intimacy means union, and here we are talking about physical separation and distance.
How can emotional union and intimacy be realized when the two of you are separated by distance? Will long distance relationship be possible?
I say, yes, it is possible. Many people have done it, we have done it, and why can’t you?
There are countless things to observe for long distance relationship to survive (some are mentioned in other titles under the 13 Helpful Tips For Long Distance Relationship To Survive), but there is one internal source that I believe can greatly contribute to the success of a long distance relationship. It is the power that lies within: your belief that you both can make it.
If you both are guided by this internal principle, then the two of you will act out that belief. From your hearts, it will be transformed into your actions and it will ultimately lead to the success of the relationship. You have to believe that you can make it, that you can make the impossible possible, and that it is possible to be intimate while physically apart.
Belief is powerful and you have to believe in yourself if you want to survive in long distance relationship. Belief, however, will not act out itself; it is the two of you are going to act this out. There are only two persons in the world who can make it possible: THE TWO OF YOU.
